As you learn and grow, your perspectives and priorities will change. If something that you were accustomed to in the past is no longer acceptable to you today, respect yourself for being able to recognize something that was detrimental to you. Also, applaud yourself for deciding to do better. Nobody is born with knowledge or wisdom. The only way to build those catalogs is through experience. Even if you haven't reached the plateau you're striving for yet, always take time to appreciate yourself for the changes you've initiated and achieved thus far.